I am noticing that every committed relationship I get in goes the same way: The object of my affection always starts off sweet and doting and attentive and slowly but surely evolves into some self-absorbed, money grubbing bitch.
I have three theories.
1) It is me. I emotionally tend to shut people out and they are just absorbing/reflecting my own inability to connect to someone/make a commitment.
2) All women are just materialistic and pathologically narcissistic and just draw men in with promises of being "different then the rest" until they get close enough to show their true colors. They know men are stubborn and egotistical and will spend their time and resources trying to "make it work" since they've already invested so much.
3) My penis is cursed, pumping out semen infused with some personality altering Thugee cult Kali Ma sperm.
Thoughts?
The truth is women are emotional leeches. When they suck all the emotion out of your system to a point where you don't give a fuck anymore they'll usually move on if you don't dump em first. This is why it's important to break the stubborn pattern, and be like "fuck that bitch" and dump the girl if she is showing any serious signs of crazy bitch syndrome. If not she will keep your balls in that prada bag for the duration of the relations.
I'm of the opinion that ALL people are "materialistic and pathologically narcissistic", but you only notice the females because they're the only ones you have relationships with (I presume).
Can I get a gayclocks or girlclocks opinion on this?
Quote from: AbsintheClock;1876190The truth is women are emotional leeches. When they suck all the emotion out of your system to a point where you don't give a fuck anymore they'll usually move on if you don't dump em first. This is why it's important to break the stubborn pattern, and be like "fuck that bitch" and dump the girl if she is showing any serious signs of crazy bitch syndrome. If not she will keep your balls in that prada bag for the duration of the relations.
Truth.
Abs, that has been my MO every time. To adopt the POV of 'fuck off, I can find another fuck puppet as easily as I found you..' I thought this made me dysfunctional or immature. But you and Zef are confirming that that's the way the game is played.
Thor, I am narcissistic and (IMO) justifiably so. Call it arrogance but the way I carry myself puts me in a position where I don't sleep alone unless I choose to. But I always reciprocate whatever is given to me. Treat me right, like I matter to you and don't take me for granted... and I will treat you the same. I tend to always find these women who go fkkn nutso before I do.
I'll do a proper post when I get home from work.
There is a certain degree of truth to what Absinthe said.
Relationships in general require good balance. If you focus too much in one area in the beginning, the other one will expect that as the standard or will cause shut down the road
Quote from: pop-tart clock;1876196Thor, I am narcissistic and (IMO) justifiably so. Call it arrogance but the way I carry myself puts me in a position where I don't sleep alone unless I choose to. But I always reciprocate whatever is given to me. Treat me right, like I matter to you and don't take me for granted... and I will treat you the same. I tend to always find these women who go fkkn nutso before I do.
That's pretty much exactly what narcissism is. That is some serious "pot callin the kettle black" shit
I am going to have to assume that #1 is the case. #2 seems to make an unjustified universal claim, while #3 seems to make an unjustified appeal to the supernatural, so through a process of elimination I have objectively concluded that everything is your fault. Deal with it.
Quote from: Thor;1876201That's pretty much exactly what narcissism is. That is some serious "pot callin the kettle black" shit
What you mean by callin the kettle
black, son?!? :)
What I'm saying is... I treat people how I'm treated. I can be romantic and generous as hell. But when I put all this effort into making someone feel special and they treat me like I don't matter... well, I don't like it.
I've seen less fortunate guys (read:not as attractive) tolerate women abusing them because they don't want to be alone. That is not a fear I have at this point in my life. But I keep saying "I'll find someone better who will appreciate me more" and then can never find that person. I've already stated that it could be my own doing.
pop-tart clock more like Narcissus Clock
yea more like thor god of poopheads amirite
itt people with the emotional maturity of a 16 year old
not all women are bad, if you keep ending up with bitches the problem is probably you
Quote from: pop-tart clock;1876209yea more like thor god of poopheads amirite
so that would make me your god then?
Quote from: DWARFINATORclock;1876210not all women are bad, if you keep ending up with bitches the problem is probably you
So what you're saying is that I'm attracted to this sort of women because my mother neglected me growing up? And that I continue this pattern because I feel like I don't deserve to be loved? Whoa. Breakthrough.
itt Roel admits he's fucked 2 women.
Sorry. That was uncalled for and shit. My current 16 yr old emotional state tonight is a reflection of being fucked over yet again by someone I really thought I had a chance of breaking the "90 day curse" with... and it has left me a little cranky. Bros before hoes n all dat ((Dwarfy))
Thor is still god of poopheads
No I'm not!!
Quote from: Thor;1876214No I'm not!!
But I shall worship you and present to you bountiful tributes of tinfish and stoneberries.
Your penis might still be cursed though be wary of that.
If you're havin' girl problems, I feel bad for you, son.
I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.
Quote from: pop-tart clock;1876212So what you're saying is that I'm attracted to this sort of women because my mother neglected me growing up? And that I continue this pattern because I feel like I don't deserve to be loved? Whoa. Breakthrough.
itt Roel admits he's fucked 2 women.
jesus mary h. jerusalem christ I think you have deep issues with something considering you actually just posted that. are you drunk?
Quote from: Kombucha;1876218If you're havin' girl problems, I feel bad for you, son.
I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.
fuck came here to post that
theres no point to this thread now that thats been posted
Maybe they don't like you cause you're young and you're black and your hat's down low.
I'm not a mind reader, though.
Quote from: MightyBooshClock;1876231Maybe they don't like you cause you're young and you're black and your hat's down low.
I'm not a mind reader, though.
Maybe you're 12 and steal your mom's Victoria Secrets catalog.
Um.. I mean am I under arrest or should I guess some more?
Speaking of moms: My mother told me "maybe if you cut your hair and started dressing like an adult, you wouldn't attract all these booty boos" (wtf is a booty boo?)
Is mom right.. or is mom a hater?
disregard bitches acquire currency
Just keep it rachet bro and cut em off cuz its just that swagged out, bust down and boot it
Quote from: RibsClock;1876269A booty boo is distinct from a person's typical boo in that said boo has a specific emphasis on interactions classified as the acquisition of booty, often on-demand in the form of a "booty call"
How can I possibly be blacker than you and know this did you read that shit? Strom Thurman called my house and asked me to tone it down and stop being such a jive turkey.
Sho nuff. Acquisition of the booty. Word.
someday you will be loved by a gentleman, a proper gentle man.
Quote from: pop-tart clock;1876212So what you're saying is that I'm attracted to this sort of women because my mother neglected me growing up? And that I continue this pattern because I feel like I don't deserve to be loved? Whoa. Breakthrough.
itt Roel admits he's fucked 2 women.
thats not really what i was saying, though if you interepreted it like that....
but there are definitely people that are attracted to that sort of women and dont realize it, whatever the reason for that may be
im just a lil tired of people instantly going YEAH ALL WOMEN ARE EVIL when a thread like this pops up just because they cant get over getting dumped or whatever. i can understand people are upset but saying stuff like that is like saying all black people are thieves haha im kidding its not like that because all black people ARE thieves
theres always a chance someones gonna fuck you over but thats life, it happens and then you get over it, try not to be bitter
I told you bro, keep it ratchet
Stop dating black chicks, that'll solve all your problems. Russian chicks are where its at.